September started with surgery for Tony. We knew the month could be action-packed, and it did not disappoint.
When Tony had his surgery, I was 33 weeks pregnant and praying for a few more weeks. I wanted to get further along, both for the health of the girls, but also to allow Tony some time to recover from such an invasive surgery.
Thankfully, this prayer was answered, and the girls came halfway through September. At times I wonder if we could have gotten farther along, but it wasn’t meant to be. On September 15th, my OB removed my cerclage, and broke my water in the process (something we knew could happen). So, we went across the hall to labor & delivery and prepared to have a couple of babies.
We settled into our room and waited for labor to ramp up. My OB was hopeful that both babies could be delivered without a C-section, but informed us that all twin births occur in the OR, because of the high probability of surgical interventions. And so, around 4:30am I awoke and knew it was time to push. As the nurses were wheeling me down to the OR, the doctor arrived, as did anesthesia.
It took only 6 pushes for Audrey to be born. As Tony & I were listening to her sweet cries, we heard that the second baby had dropped breech. The whole team in the OR prepped for a C-section and quickly removed Emily. It was a whirlwind, all happening from start to finish in about 30 minutes. The result was 2 premature, but healthy baby girls.
Audrey Renee Hayden – Friday September 16, 2016 5:16am 5lbs 8oz
Emily Anne Hayden – Friday September 16, 2016 5:29am 5lbs 11oz
The girls were taken to the NICU. Born at 35 weeks, they were healthy enough they didn’t need any medications or oxygen. However, they hadn’t yet mastered the pattern of suck-swallow-breathe and so struggled to eat enough calories to keep their growth up. They both had feeding tubes, and every 3 hours, would drink what they could from a bottle, and then have the rest of it poured down their tube.
The nurses told us being the parents of “feeder-grower” babies is often the most frustrating, because the babies are big and healthy, and yet can spend weeks in the NICU learning how to eat.
Audrey made a quick turnaround last week. She started taking all of her bottles, and we brought her home on Monday. Caroline may be the most excited to have her home, and wants to regularly touch her feet, find her belly button, and help change her diaper. We’re praying Emily will be able to come home soon, and we can have our family together in one place. Until then, we continue to take everything a day at a time, and be thankful for all that has happened this past month.